Over the past week, my youngest son has planted seeds with me. He has carefully chosen seeds that he likes: watermelon, cantaloupe, cucumber, basil with the hopes of them growing into big and strong plants. We have a plot at a community garden as well as a raised bed on our second floor balcony which my husband made. He asked that his melon could be planted on the balcony because in the past year the animals have always gotten to the melons before we have. He wants to protect them. He doesn’t want to have to pick them before they are ready, when they are too small and not ripe, simply to avoid having them bitten into.
And so with this in mind, knowing that his plants may not make it to full fruition, he planted the seeds anyway. Knowing that there is only so much he can do to protect these plants, he patted the soil down anyway with hopes that in planting the seed and starting the growth, good things would happen.
And so it is with life. We plant the seeds, knowing not all of them will make it, but hoping they will and doing what we can so that they do anyway. We don’t give up at the start, not bothering to plant the seed. We hold fast to our intentions, our hopes and our dreams, nurturing them with our belief in them, and in ourselves, our ability to bring them into fruition.
And so it is with parenting; we do what we can to bring our children up with a belief in themselves to reach their dreams, even against the odds.
We need to prepare the vessels that contain them.
Give them space.
Remember only what is important.
Allow them to grow.
That is how we parent
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